Oh I am soooo happy right now! Dr. G called and he told me that I can start soft chew 🙂 He had his assistant Rene’ call me to talk about what kinds of things I can have, but he said basically anything that I can cut with a fork!
Okay, to catch things up. We travelled to La Jolla where we spent three days. The La Jolla Shores beach has to be the prettiest beach I have ever seen in the contiguous 48! Then we travelled back to Hollywood and did very touristy things – Warner Brothers Studio Tour, Stars Home Tour. I also had a “feeling pretty” splurge where I had a facial, had my hair cut and ombred, and had brow and lash tints done!
On Friday of last week we travelled back to Santa Barbara to meet with Dr. G one more time. He says my top teeth on the left want to “get in the way”. He has worked with bands to get first my canine, then the one behind it to move. Now the one behind that is acting up – kind of a chain reaction I guess. He took x-rays and said everything looks great right now! My condyle fits into the socket like a “pencil in a Dixie cup”, and the one on the right side has a little contact. So if I have any pain at all, it may be on this side. He says it will be fine long term, he just needs to keep an eye on it. He also wanted me to restart on Enbrel when I got home.
I have been having some pain on my right side. Mom and I figured out that it was coming from my ear rather than my jaw because I would get dizzy changing positions and that ear sounded plugged when I talked. So Dr. G had me: take Sudafed twice per day, use Afrin twice per day, Zyrtec once per day, and saline spray five times per day. This was for the three days leading up to our flight. No ear pain on the way home…yay!
We flew home Saturday morning. I had documentation from Dr. G that I need a blended diet and could take liquid nutrition through security. But what a hassle! They had to open most everything and test it. The woman who performed a body pat down on me was so rude – remarking about my food choices and saying things like “she SAID she had jaw surgery” – that I teared up. It’s hard to be coming off something so intense and have someone be so rude and question your intentions. My Mom took the TSA woman aside after that and explained to her how her demeanor upset me and pleaded with her to be more gentle with people who have gone through an eight-hour surgery. The woman thanked my mom!
So yeah, soup and smoothies have really sucked lately. But I am super excited to be on to something new! I got to go to IHOP for my first meal and ordered hashbrowns and chocolate chip pancakes. It took me forever to eat my hashbrowns and only ate about a half of a pancake. I DID NOT expect chewing to feel so awkward and unnatural – basically having to learn to chew all over again! I’m sure it will come back soon, just another hurdle to climb. It’s just super nice to have more options now 🙂 I can also drink from a straw now, so maybe I wont spill so much!
My Mom and I originally planned to stay in Santa Barbara for six weeks, so would have flown home last Saturday. But we decided to stay and be tourists for two extra weeks! Figured why not since I hadn’t seen much of California due to the major surgery. So we moved out of our rented Santa Barbara condo and into a hotel in Santa Monica, where we have stayed this week. We’ve had a lot of fun: finding the Bachelor/Bachelorette mansion, seeing a Chelsea Lately show taping, and interacting with P!nk on a street in Venice!
We had to drive up to Santa Barbara twice this week because Dr. G wanted to keep working on my bite. On Monday his assistant Rene’ called me the “awesomest result in the universe”. When I asked her if she says that to everyone, she said no. She has only used that once before, and it was to a young man whose pictures are on Dr. G’s walls! I need to remember that comment when I get frustrated and think things are going too slowly.
Tuesday night we were stopped at an intersection in Hollywood and a car stopped behind us. The driver wasn’t paying attention and sped up while we were still stopped, and rear ended us! My bands were off and my teeth clenched and I got very worried that something could have happened I already had an appointment with Dr. G set for Thursday so I just had to wait. He was very concerned when he heard what happened, but it turned out that my bite is exactly where he wants it to be. He even turned me loose to wear my bands only 12 hours per day! Ahhhhh, the freedom of spending all day being able to open my mouth and drink without slurping through my teeth 🙂 since I am 6 weeks out and my cheek grafts are pretty much set I can start to SIDE SLEEP but with a very soft pillow! Sweet relief! Plus he only needs to see me once next week and is even considering taking the hook out before I head home because it is useless right now anyway! Rene also told me I was the first patient she has ever given a ruler to so I could measure my bite. She made me promise I wouldn’t obsess over it but could see how invested I was in trying to make my ROM bigger and wanted me to be able to check my progress. I sure am going to miss these two when I leave!
We are traveling to La Jolla tomorrow to spend a few days before coming back up to Hollywood and then back to Santa Barbara on Friday. It’s crazy to think that I only have eight days left in California, and only one more appointment with Dr. G before I fly back to Iowa! And one month from today I will be meeting my new class of fourth graders!
What a good Fourth of July weekend! We brought chairs to the beach for some fireworks and even though we really couldn’t see them due to clouds it was awesome being by the ocean and in that environment 🙂
Saw Dr G today for 5 weeks post op! 3 weeks away from soft chew! I have been so happy lately not having to wear my front elastic that attaches to the hook but I fear I might have to start again soon. It appears my front teeth have shifted a bit since I stopped wearing it. Dr G gave me a new band pattern to try out this week to hopefully correct it. I go and see him again Friday. Fingers crossed I won’t need the front elastic, it just stresses me out!
On a good note I might be able to start sleeping on my side next week! It depends how the bone grafts in my face are doing, he said they’re still a bit soft now but are usually set by the 6 week mark. I would love to get away from sleeping on my back! I wake up a lot more at night and my neck often hurts when I wake up. I’m just not used to it! Dr G is also letting me leave my elastics out for 4 hours at night now to hopefully increase my ROM. He said people who start out with a large ROM in the early weeks sometimes struggle with continuing to make it bigger. This way when I have them off for longer I’ll be talking and stretching the joints more to hopefully help!
This is my last week in Santa Barbara and we leave for some time in Southern California on Saturday. Only 17 more days until I am back in Iowa! Time flies but I am going to enjoy California as much as I can, something tells me I am really going to miss it when I’m home!
I had my four week check up on Tuesday. Dr. G told me that I can start leaving my bands off for one hour, three times per day! Plus I don’t have to wear the front band anymore that attaches to the skeletal hooks in the front of my jaw!!! That is such a relief because of the terrible pain it had been causing me!
Last Friday I got a call from Dr. G’s office asking me to come in for an extra appointment. Dr. G explained to me that when I was saying good-bye the previous day, he noticed that my archwire wasn’t perfectly straight. So he thought about me overnight and devised a plan using the bands on my braces to straighten the front piece of my top jaw. (My top jaw had been split into three pieces during surgery, and the front piece was trying to tilt, making my left canine tooth higher than my right one.) I had to walk around with VERY tight bands on for a couple of hours to get the front piece of my jaw moving. Then Dr. G checked it and taught me a different pattern to use on the bands when I put them on my braces. This new pattern was much tighter than the old way. I had another appointment today (my second of the week) and he told me that the treatment worked! So I got a new band pattern that I started using today and it feels much better! He also said things are looking so good that we can probably start doing just one appointment per week.
When we first decided to come to Santa Barbara from Iowa for this surgery, Dr. G’s office told us to plan on staying three weeks post surgery. We elected to stay for six weeks. I am so happy we did! Otherwise, we may have needed to come back out for this jaw straightening, as this doesn’t always happen to patients post op. The other option would have been to have my ortho align my teeth using the braces. I do NOT want anything to prolong the time I have to have these babies on!!
My left front tooth is turning a little purple at the top, looking bruised around the gumline. Dr. G says that means it is having a hard time getting enough blood flow after the major surgery. About 50% of teeth that do this come around with no problems. If it doesn’t come back, it may need to be bleached from the inside to restore it to the right color. I am keeping my fingers crossed, but at least I won’t lose the tooth!
On a personal note, last weekend my Mom and I went to visit the Gentle Barn in Santa Clarita, CA. Ellie Laks, who started this nonprofit, does amazing work. She takes in the most needy of animals, heals them, and uses them to help at-risk kids heal as well. Check out their website at http://www.gentlebarn.org. If you are coming here for surgery, I highly recommend this daytrip when you are feeling up for it! I really connected with what she is doing and wish I could find something in like this in Iowa to take my students to!
Oh, and we have decided to stay in California a couple of extra weeks! We will be here eight weeks in all. Dr. G wants his out of area patients back for an eight week check, so we are going to stick nearby and explore a little more of the California coast. 🙂
Here are some things I learned that might help others going through this:
1. We rented a recliner for me to sleep in post surgery as I am supposed to sleep with my head above my heart. Great call! I recommend it.
2. If you read blogs and they recommend lots of supplies, keep in mind that your doctor may have a definite way of doing things that is different than other doctors. Examples: Dr. G doesn’t want his patients to use any straw products including Zip-n-Sips (even though you squeeze the bag rather than suck on the straw, the liquid is still going in forcefully and can destabilize the incisions), no “Jaw Bra” because icing the swelling interferes with bone healing. The moral of the story: get a list of items from your doctor rather than accumulating a lot of things you may not need.
3. That being said, it doesn’t hurt to have lots of washcloths and hand towels on hand. I used washcloths to hold under my chin to catch drips when drinking. The hand towels function as a “bib” to catch anything that gets through the washcloth. The numbness is no joke!
4. No matter how much you are prepared, you won’t be prepared! You will rush to buy things after surgery – like 5 ounce plastic cups when you discover you can drink from those better than a sippy cup.
5. You wake up in the hospital and think the surgery wasn’t so bad (I was terrified of what I was going to feel like when I woke up). Day two post op when the swelling starts kicking in you will think differently. It gets a lot worse before it gets better, but it will get better!
6. Just take deep breaths and go with the flow. This process needs time and patience.
I go see Dr. G again today. Tomorrow is four weeks! Wonder what he will say 🙂
Yesterday was my second follow up appointment and it has now been two weeks since surgery! I ended up being at Dr. G’s office for a good 2.5 hours yesterday. I have three different sets of rubber bands that have been holding my jaws together. One on each side and then one directly down the middle. The ones on the sides are attached to my braces but the one down the middle is attached to a screw and a hook that are drilled into my actual bone. The screw and hook stick out of my gums and the rubber band hooks on at the top and bottom. This kind of freaks me out knowing I have a screw that is in my bone that I am hanging something off of, but I am completely numb still and can’t feel a thing. Hoping it stays that way at least around my screw and hook!
The first thing Dr. G did yesterday was un band my mouth. I was nervous because that had been like a security blanket for the past two weeks and it was going to be taken off! Right before he did it I half jokingly asked if i should expect my jaw to come flying open after the resistance is released and without missing a beat he replies “yea you should probably have your hand under your chin to catch it- just in case!” This made my heart skip a beat and I think he could tell because right away he said “I’m just kidding that was mean you will be fine.” It makes me glad to know I have a doctor who I trust but also has such a good personality! The bands came off ok and I was then told to open my mouth as far as I could. It was super awkward but I managed to open and close it a good amount of times. Not near the range I had pre op but It will get better, just need to remember its very early still 🙂 after I worked with opening it I was told I could finally BRUSH my teeth! I had been doing a peroxide/salt rinse numerous times a day but nothing compares to brushing your teeth. I was very hesitant to stick my toothbrush in my mouth and could hardly feel what I was doing due to numbness but I definitely felt better after! I am super happy I am able to brush everyday now, I will never take brushing my teeth for granted again!
After brushing I took xrays and he said my bones and joints look super! That is so reassuring. I am excited to be able to see an xray here soon of my new jaw, I want to be able to see where he put the titanium plates and rods in my face. eeek! Finally Lena his wonderful assistant helped me practice putting the bands on by myself and taking them off by myself. I’m sure i’ll get better at this soon..I am going to be taking them off and on 2-3 times a day to do exercises now! I am also supposed to start taking all my joint medications again! Before I left the office Dr. G suggested I meet another patient who will be having surgery on Thursday. She is very nervous and anxious and feeling a lot of the same emotions I felt right before I had mine. I was able to reassure her she will make it through and be ok when she wakes up in the hospital. She reassured me with how impressed she was at my progress in only two weeks! It was awesome to meet someone else going through this same process around the same time as me. Definitely makes me feel less alone in it all!
What a long day mentally yesterday was for me. I try not to get caught up in how far I still have to go but rather how far I have come. Easier said than done but I have made it to my first milestone post op and I know more will be coming! I am now on just a blended diet (doesn’t have to be strained or particle free anymore) and hoping to increase my range of motion a little bit every day when doing my exercises. The one thing I CAN’T wait for is when I can sleep on my side again. It’s hard work sleeping on your back the whole night! Through it all, the best feeling ever is knowing that my front teeth now touch for the first time in nearly 6 years. I’ve often found myself admiring other people who have a perfect, functioning bite and now I am well on my way to having one also!
Another thing I learned yesterday- blended up enchiladas aren’t as bad as you may think and there is no shame in trying to drink hummus 🙂
Below is me trying to brush my teeth…haha mom was so proud!